There is a realtor coming to my house tonight to give us a ballpark of what he thinks we can get for our house.  We will be using that information to determine if and what and where we can afford by way of a new house, which in turn, will determine what school Alex goes to and if we have to move his daycare or not and whether we will need to meet new neighbors or make ours move with us and how is this something adults do without freaking out?